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What is "Circle Of Friends"?

"Circle Of Friends" is a group of people in spiritual, or emotional pain who gather on the
second Wednesday
of each month from 9:30 a.m. - 11:00 a.m. in Room 109. It is open
to all St. Cecilia parishioners, their families and friends.

"Circle Of Friends" is a facilitated gathering of men and women who are at various stages of
loss in their lives who come together to pray with one another, and support one another.

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What Type Of Loss?

  • The loss of a loved one through death whether it was anticipated or unexpected.
  • The loss of a child through miscarriage, abortion, crib death, illness or accident.
  • The break up of a marriage or long time relationship.
  • The loss of a job or sudden career change.
  • Any life change that leaves one feeling empty, alone, afraid ... in need of comfort and support.

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How Can "Circle Of Friends" Help?

"Circle Of Friends" is a group that offers an opportunity to talk with, pray with, and listen to others who may have experienced a loss similar to yours.

  • The group can be comforting and supportive.
  • The group can help you understand your feelings, so you feel less alone.
  • The group can help you strengthen old ties and begin new ones.
  • The group can help you recover and maintain your emotional and physical health.
  • The group can provide hope.
  • The group can provide a spiritual connection through prayer.

Even Jesus experienced deep sorrow and wept. Why should we be any different?

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What Is Grieving?

  • Grieving is to be in sorrow, to feel distress, to mourn.
  • Grieving is a process of sorrowing deeply over a period of time.
  • Grieving is a series of painful experiences into which one enters and lives for a period of time before there is healing.
  • Grieving comes and goes in spasms, lurking for a time before erupting again and again and again.
  • Grieving may produce feelings of fear, anger, great regret, guilt, shame, an abiding sense of uselessness, loneliness or an inability to focus.
  • Grieving eventually ends because we only have so much capacity to carry sorrow, and because we are also able to gather new resources for living.
  • There is no right or wrong way to grieve.
  • All of us grieve in our own way and time -- the way and time that is right for us.

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